Tuesday, November 9, 2010
DeAr DiArY,
9th NovemBEr 2010 - ItS a RaiNnY TuesDaY MoRniN
RapHAeL UpdATEs ....
27th OcToBeR 2010
RapHAeL did his 1st flip by himself in front of me, husband n my mum...husband trying to use toy n make him catch..n put somewhere further abit tat he cannot reach..tis is hw he turn..actuali i tink baobei oreadi knw hw to turn but he's juz plain lazy...durin 3months plus..we put him on tummy n he knws hw to flip bakward..den slowli when we change his diaper..we put him on sideways, he actuali flip up...so i would says tat baobei is lazy..now my Busy record book added 1 more BUSY milestone for me..haha..he's oreadi 4months plus goin 5 months soon...although he's consider quite late to flip...but nevertheless i'm still very happi n excited tat he learn another skills n oso now since he knws hw to flip..as n when he'll gif me a fright becos i cannot juz leave him alone on the bed as well...
There's 1 day...i was tokin on the phone..n he's actuali takin his afternoon nap..den i walk over to the kitchen to throw rubbish n juz nice he start cryin...when i walk bak to look @ him...he actuali flip up but luckily i put him on mattress so tat even he fall oso wun hit too hard on the floor...Phew~~ n the most difficult part nw is helpin him to change diaper...C c c ...he oreadi master the skill so he cannot lay dwn properly juz like his newborn...
7th November 2010 - ITs a SundAY
Tis weekend spendin @ jurong house cos my precious parent in law went to malacca...as i usuali spend weekend @ sengkang eversince little baobei is out...
So tis weekend, juz nice my precious mummy is off.. den we went for shoppin @ suntec.. we walk everywhere in suntec n oso to toyrus..its so funny tat all of us enjoy inside the toy shop...especially Precious daddy n my little baobei..did video dwn n upload into FB soon...=) n after shoppin we went to haf our dinner n go to NTUC buy BaoBei de milk powder n cereal...den proceed bak home...
Tokin abt my FB...some says tat i owas upload photo of my little bao bei..some says not enuf n ask me uplaod more..n tis FB is my electric photo album..although its more to the public (my frenz) but it oso to help me save all my photo as well...last time we use to develop the photo n keep it in the album..but nw we save it in an electric photo album..Li hai hor..=p..
Our Precious Corner...
Comin soon our 1st weddin anniversary...seriously duno hw to celebrate tis comin anniversary bcos now i cannot leave R alone n go somewhere myself for few days...
Husband says book Marina Bay Sands...i was hesitatin @ 1st but now i agree to book it...it's too late..cos all fully book..>.<...C cc...i'm owas like tat...owas decide late n miss the opportunity...but nvm..to me..spend anniversary aniwhere oso no problem..as long as we both got the heart for 1 another..tats oreadi enuf..^^
1 of the days...i complain husband touch Raphael more than touch me..muahaha...den guess wad...we went shoppin, husband carry raphael n another hand hold me..lolx..shld i get happi or funny abt it?
Ranting corner...
I juz cannot understand tat why ppl like to compare the size of the baby...So wat if ur baby is bigger size than mine or my baby is bigger size than u..isn't the most important is tat they're growin well, eating well n most important is healthy???
Different people handle their baby differently...so u cannot judge me by saying the way i look after my kids will not make him grow fatter...i dun listen much to those oldies where the result dun turn logically...all parent wishes for their kids is owas the best..n dun u tink tat wad u say will hurt a mother heart..do u tink i would liek my kids to b small size too???
Baby Sleep more will grow fatter...i totally agree to tis..not oni baby eat n slp will grow fat...adult does too...but in the end wad does baby gain instead of bein chubby?...n so wad if i dun let my baby slp the whole day n often put him in tummy to train his strong neck...i've been carryin Raphael sitin upright when he's oni 2 months plus..n i feel so proud of him tat he can start to support his head wif his own neck..
By 3 months plus he can start to look around when we carry him upright...SO so so wad my baby isn't chubby??
den wads the problem wif keep carryin baby??? different ppl handle their kids differently...i loves to cuddle & swaddle my little baobei...tis is the oni time i can cuddle & swaddle as much as i like...when he grow up, he will not wans to b like tis...so wad if u owes a easier life proudly tellin ppl tat i din reali carry my kids much when they're baby..n next time u watchin ur kids n tryin to recall their newborn n tinkin i did not carry them much when u feel like it...its too late cos u cannot rewind bak the time...
Baby crys cos they nid secure as they're juz warmly hug inside ur tummy for the pretty 10months.. so when they're out..they feel insecure so tats y they cry..n yet u're their parent, watchin them cry n dun carry cos u dun wana to trouble urself n make ur baby feel insecure!!! den y in the 1st place u gif birth to a kids for wad...ur own kids u dun dote on them den who dote? of cos dote muz haf a limit la..but i simply dun agree wif oldies sayin "dun owas carry ur vavy when they cry" bcos i tink its tryin to gif themself more freedom den if u scare of not hafin freedom den i tink u shldn't gif birth in the 1st place..imagine u're very very very scare n u cry...n u're hopin ur husband or ur parent to come n gif u a tight hug for secure n yet they juz ignore u or stand around u n watch u cryin..>.<
Muahaha...Perhaps oldies saw wad i say they'll get alive from dead lolx...but wad i'm sayin is tryin to express wad a baby nids...n tis oldies simply juz make all tis baby feel so pity...we brin our kids to the world is to let them see n gif the best ting to them..not come out to suffer insecurity..
Dun gif birth to ur kids juz for the sake of gif birth or bcos no precaution...since u wan to brin them to the world..u muz knw tat u'll nvr haf ani type of freedom...even by carryin ur baby lesser wun help tat much la..n oso try to understand other mother heart...no mother wish to c their baby smaller built than other baby tat is same age...we shld encourage them by not sayin theur method of lookin is wrong..
i love seein or hearin mummy excitedly n happily enjoyin thru their pregnancy n baby growin stage..n welcomin all the new skills their baby has learn..no doubts it'll b extra busy..but its all worth it..although sometime will complain tat they haf no time to rest n all but of cos they're still enjoyin it...a New parenthood begins..
and owas like to compare ur baby is bigger than mine or mine is bigger than u..hw come dun compare who learn the skill faster? baby eventually will slim down when they start to walk n run..so tat chubby period is oni tat 1st few months of their lifes..unless both parent is big size den of cos the baby will eventually get fatter...
Phew~ after bein a mother..above rantin is wad i encounter everytime..even brin baby to shoppin...some stranger or older auntie will ask hw old is Raphael den after knowin..their next comment is sayin their grandson is chubbier than Raphael..den teach me to let baby sleep more..i feel tat its so pity to keep stayin @ home n slp the whole day instead of brin them around to look @ wads goin on after comin out of the tummy...haha..so i simply juz ignore..
they're a mother themself..dun they knw tat its hurtin to hear such comments???
But luckily i got my both parent, husband n sister there to encourage me thruout all tis comments...wad matters is Baby is healthy...
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My PrEciOuS DiAry às 12:03 PM
