My PrEciOuS DiAry

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Dear Diary,

31st August 2010 - Its a Tuesday...

Its Been 2 months since i last blog...

Shall update more on my Little BaoBei Raphael Sng...

Lets start with 4th June - 4th July 2010 - my confinement period...

7th June 2010 - Its a Monday

Daddy n mumy n sis come to pick me up from Mt Alvernia after 4days of stay there..i was so so worried tat Raphael need to stay back cos of jaundice, wich is pretty common for baby n oso when i was born, i got jaundice too...n actuali the nite b4, the nurse came into our room..luckily i chose 1 bedded cos after visiting hour there's still alot of ppl there to company me n play wif baby...den the nurse told us tat baby jaundice is starting to show...so wad i can do is PRAY very hard tat the jaundice is not tat high so tat he can still discharge together wif me...

so earli in the mornin i eat my breakfast as husband go to work from Mt Alvernia, den i do not reali dare to ask nurse to brin Raphael over to me, becos i'm alone handlin plus my wound still abit pain, den who knws the nurse brin Raphael over to my room n ask whether i wana Breastfeed anot...i told the nurse juz gif formula, den while the nurse push Raphael away tat time i shouted n say i feed him breastmilk...so wif the nurse help..i latch raphael on...i love to look @ how he suck suck on my breast...the cuteness is unexplainable den halfway feed, the PD Simon came to report about raphael progress..den he standin outside the curtain n ask whether he can come in..i juz straight away say "OK" n in my heart i was tellin raphael tat he better continue suckin until the PD walk away..if not my nipple will b expose (i knw the PD c until sian liao..but somehow i still nid some '尊严' lolx..) den PD Simon told me tat raphael got Jaundice n still waiting for the result to come out...if its too high, he nid to stay for phototherapy..if its not too high, he can go bak home wif me..i juz keep lookin @ raphael n c where got yellowish...den after PD simon left my room, my parent came...n my sis is enjoyin lookin @ hw raphael drink direct from breast n my mum keep kissin him while i'm breastfeeding...n my dad outside the curtain n reading newspaper..den when i finish feedin Raphael, my dad carry him..n under the sunlight my mum n dad spotted raphael nose there got yellowish...when they tell me tat time, my heart super pain after seein...i knw its very normal, but cannot help heartpain...

So waited n waited for the result, i finali manage to carry my little boy for awhile den i call to the nursery there to ask for the result...cos its 12pm le..den i nid to b discharge n we still duno abt the result, den when i call, i got the ans tat raphael jaundice is 12 n he nid to stay 1 more day for photo therapy...if its 10.5 den he can b discharge...my tears omost burst out but i control myself... den i tell my parent abt it..den Doc Watt came to check my wound n the nurse help me with the dressing...n the nurse told me tat baby nid to stay cos jaundice n she somehow like console me by tellin me some ppl brin bb go bak home den the next day will brin bb bak cos of jaundice..like tat will b even more heartpain..den i come to tink of it oso true...

So everyting done, got a lady walk into my room n ask whether i wana do the hand n foot print for raphael, i thot its less than 200 i'll do...but who knws it turn out to be 300+...den i gif husband a call n he told me we can do ourself den i ask husband whether shld i stay in hospital 1 more day...he told me tat if i stay oso no use, cos baby will b in the phototheraphy the whole day,n i oso cant c him..oni feedin time...but husband knws i wanted to stay so he ask me to n check whether can stay 1 more nite anot...den when i ask the counter...the charges for single bedded is 400 i tink...forget the price...den 2 bedded is 200+, but if 2 bedded husband cannot stay wif me, den if 1 bedded husband nid to pay extra for him to company me..den my dad say dun waste tis type of money...den my mum say 1 day very fast de la..so i juz carry baby to the nursery n pass it to the nurse...my tears reali reali feel like splashin out..but i dun wan to cry cos if i sad..my baby can feel it...so i keep tell raphael tat mummy will immediately come n pick him once i got the news he can go home..ask him to tell the jaundice to go away...

Den bak to my dad car...was restin den reach home..here comes my jail period...Roar...

My mum ask me to wear slipper, den my dad switch on the FAN n blow onto the ceiling...n i was ask to lay dwn on the bed...OMG...i'm sweating n i'm juz too tired tat after i sms my mil i juz doze off...den after wake up, actuali plannin to go Mt Alvernia to look for raphael, but husband say dun nid purposly go n look cos we confirm cannot carry him out of the phototheraphy..den i msn wif darlin surprise n we chatted..den while chattin wif surprise i was lookin @ facebook n c raphael photo..n show it to my parent..they keep smilin lookin @ the photo..

I'm reali glad tat i got 2 great great great n marvellous parent...they very caring n helpful in everyting...

My mil sms me n console me n ask me to make use of tis time haf a good rest...den my mum n dad keep tellin me last time i oso haf jaundice when i reach home..den after tat haf to rush to hospital n use light to shine @ me...

den nite time, husband come bak...den my dad suggest to go n buy baby ting den i wana tag along...so husband, mummy & daddy n me together go jurong point kiddy palace...

Bought Breast Pump, n fisherprice rocker n not forgeting Milk powder...i plan to let raphael drink formula (EnfaLac) durin nite time..so he can slp longer n i can rest more..

den bak home, husband help me wipe body den bak to bed n lay down...husband on his laptop n log in facebook n look @ Raphael photo...i cant help miss him n i tears out..mayb wif husband around den will b more weak..cos i've control my tears for very long...

8th June 2010 - iTs a Tuesday

i oni slp 3-4hours oni...keep lookin @ the clock...waiting for mornin...

den precious mummy cook breakfast for me den while i'm eatin i cry...den my mum clean the house i ask her dun clean cos i'm waitin for hospital call..once hospital call me...i'll confirm DASH to hospital...den while tokin to mummy i pack clothes n all, getting ready to go out anitime...

11am plus - hospital still did not call me...i'm gettin agitate n angry..cos when i was in hospital, usuali the PD Simon will report to me around 8plus...den usuali by 11plus or wad they shld haf the result out oreadi..so i call Mt ALvernia..den in the end the nurse told tat in the mornin PD Simon look @ bb sayin tat Raphael jaundice seems to subside..but still nid to wait for the report but ask me to come n pick raphael...

So without waitin ani longer..Precious mummy, sister n me juz grab the bag n off we go..den juz nice when we walk down..we saw a cab @ the carpark..so we reach Mt Alvernia within 30mins...

Walk very fast to the nursery den finali get to c My BaoBei Raphael Sng...but there's 1 ting very funny...^^ my IC is wif husband den i told the nurse tat i dun haf IC wif me, den she ask me "how come u dun haf IC" den i say i pass to husband to register durin delivery tat time..den the nurse wana identify wif me jiu ask me...Wads ur baby gender? den wads my nric no. n my full name n all..its kinda cute to ask me abt my baby gender..lolx...den finali i'm able to hug my baobei..BUT the nurse quite funny...they dun let me carry my baby until the entrance...n they follow me down to the Main entrance...cos its rainin den i scare raphael caught cold jiu call precious william uncle to fetch us bak home...den precious william uncle oreadi reach when nurse is wrappin raphael in the Mickey Mouse blanket n tellin me to use the small tissue to clean Raphael ambilical cord n all those simple guiding..Den while waitin william uncle to drive his taxi over to pick us...My mum, sis n me oni able to look @ baby in the baby pram...we cannot carry... den when we get into the car den the nurse carry Raphael n put @ mummy hand...

I tink tis is their service ba...

Den bak home...William uncle pass me ang bao...i'm so touched by all the gift of love tat everyone is showerin me...den bak home brin Raphael into my room n tryin to latch him...den oso take afew photo of him n hug him..den i slp bside him...i reali fall aslp cos is like FINALI my baobei is bak beside me...=)

Thru out the 4 weeks confinement..every weekend my pil will come n carry raphael n not forgetin buyin alot of tonic for me...

1 of the weekend...Pil bought 2 boxes of Ginseng for me...n 1 box cost $220...when i get to knw abt it...i omost cry out...cos is like they spend too much le...n not forgetin my parent too...both my parent bought alot of good tonic for me...i feel very loved...n precious mummy knws i sure will ask for shower..so she go market there to buy herbals for me to shower...she bought alot n tell me i can bath alternate days...but i wash my hair alternate day n bath everyday...=p... i still dun dare to look @ my wound durin tat time..so husband was owas there to help me shower thruout...

9th june 2010 - ITs a wednesday

Daddy earli in the mornin brin raphael to his room n sunbath him...as i was told by the nurse oni can sunbath him durin 7am - 9am tis timin...

On tis day...i was seriously ill..mayb the whole midnite keep wakin up to feed baby n not enuf rest n all...i got fever n daddy took over to look after for me den husband go work...i duno wad happen to me...i was so so so so blur until i look @ the clock for abt 5mins i still cannot tell the time...n i went into my parent rooms n thot its my room..n i look here n there oso cannot tell is it my room anot...n worst is raphael was juz right in front of me..n i'm lookin the whole house to find him... den husband discuss wif daddy whether can let mummy look after 1 nite den let me haf a good rest...after a very good rest...i'm feelin better..

10th June 2010 - ITs a thursday
Happi Birthday to my Precious Daddy

Today is my precious daddy birthday...n he's off but he nid to fetch us down to Mt Alvernia for raphael jaundice check...den luckily PD simon ask us to Sunbath raphael for afew more days as his jaundice is improving...den ask whether i got gif him Breastfeeding anot..den he teach me to massage my breast n all..as i told PD simon tat i was sick n took panadol den dun dare to feed baby my milk n i throw away all the milk tat i pump..he actuali told me tat i still can feed Raphael...

Here goes my milk >.<

Den bak home...daddy tokin wif Raphael den my cute little baobei reali gif daddy a big smile..makin all of us so happi..den mummy suggest go n buy curry fishhead bak home n eat...

13th June 2010 - ITs a Sunday

RAPHAEL finali got chinese name oreadi ^^

Mil went to Yiu Long Zhi there to select afew chinese name for us to chose...den brin all the booklet n all to us to chose his name...

Got afew name to chose...

Sng Jian Kai
Sng Qi Yuan

tis is the 2 we're tinkin which to select...in the end...Tadahhh~~~

RAPHAEL SNG QI YUAN 孙啟源 is the one we pick..all of us love tis name ^^ den after tat my father side relative came to visit me too...

Got sally auntie, william uncle, 4th uncle n 4th uncle wife...they bought tonic for me too n oso durian...yummy yummy...i carry Raphael over to them n while they're eatin durian...raphael smiles n we guess cos he smell his favourite durian..den mummy n daddy share wif uncles n aunties tat i keep eatin durian to pump baby weight...haha...den i haf a taste of the durian too..cos they say durian is "PU" den after tat my big auntie came oso to pass me ang bao...

14th June 2010 - Its a Monday

today i got Gynae appointment..so we carry raphael down to compass point...precious mummy n i took cab down to compass point den met husband there..Guess wad..i manage to lose 10kg after 10days..i'm actuali quite impress but i still got another 10kg to go to my pre-preg but i'm aimin for another 5kg more...bcos pre-preg weight i'm actuali underweight lolx...den manage to take photo wif Doc Watt together wif Raphael...

During the check up...Mummy carry Raphael together go into Doc Watt room..den Doc Watt use the scanner again to scan my stomach...den husband was standin at the usual place durin the routine scan everytime...den i told husband "now no baby inside liao" lolx...den doctor say everyting is normal for me...den we took photo n haf some chat..den she touch my breast n ask me got pump regular anot..den i say "Hmm..got la.." den she say "den how coem nw ur breast so hard" den i tell her cos i come over to compass point forget to brin pump along...=p den my next appointment will b 19th July 2010 for Pap Smear..

16th June 2010 - ITs a wednesday

Pil were both OFF n went to register Raphael Birth Cert..den after tat they came over to pass me all our document n Raphael Birth Cert...den chatted awhile den wait for mum to come bak home...

27th June 2010 - Its a Sunday

we plannin to brin Raphael out to Gai Gai @ IMM n oso to buy some party ting for his Full month celebration...den PIL & my parent all were out to IMM together...den we eat our dinner den i wana drink tea cos i thot can drink..den actuali TEA i'm not allow..so i drink water..so My precious mummy n mil keep telling me..."BE GOOD..just endure 1 more week nia" hehe...den after tat receive phonecall from Uncle Eldon tat he's comin to find us..so we finish eating jiu go to Poh Heng n wana buy Anklet n Pendant for Raphael cos i told him when he's in my tummy tat if he's obedient i'll buy all tis for him...

When we reach Poh Heng...i straight ask for the Mickey Mouse Anklet n Pendant..but they come either gold or silver..so ask for opinion wif my PIL too..den finali settle dwn wif Gold Micket Pendant n Anklet...i was quite shock abt the price of the Anklet..its cost $400 n its quite thin...den in the end, my parent snatch to pay money..den i say if they wana buy juz buy 1..i buy another 1...den they insist to buy both...so after tat finish buyin, we slowli walkin bak to carpark den pil went bak home...

bak home not long...Uncle eldon brin his family over wif grandma too den we chatted n chatted...den Auntie Angeline help to feed raphael...

After they go home...wipe Raphael n help him wear the Anklet..

2nd July 2010 - ITs a Friday

YEAH~~ we're bak to Sengkang house...becs we'll be celebratin Raphael Full Month @ PIL house...den my precious pil bought another Mickey mouse anklet for Raphael...Tis time round is Silver de..n wif a tigger pendant...

We're so surprise when FIL pass the 2 boxes to Husband..den we wear it for raphael after takin photo of it...So now raphael leg got 2 anklet..1 Gold anklet from popo & gong gong n 1 silver anklet from yeye & nai nai...n not forgetting 1 mickey pendant n 1 tigger pendant...

VISITING

During Hospital Stay :
Surprise
Li Hong
Irene
Fion
Ooi Ma
Uncle Desmond
Auntie Li
Nicholas & Gf
Freddie & church frenz
Godpa & Godma
Charlene
Jaslin
Bernard
Fu Li

During @ home :
Celeste
Surprise
Irene
YiDa
Kelvin
KaiGui
Jian Xiang & Gf
Godma
4th Uncle & Wife
William Uncle
Sally Auntie
Big Auntie
Li Yan & Frenz

Let me tink still got who i've miss out...^^

i'm so happi tat my precious pri skool frenz actuali gif me a surprise visit...so glad tat actuali they reali got the heart...n oso not forgetin our relatives...

CONFINEMENT

Basically my confinement is quite freely...can say cos i'm disobedient...i've eat MAc Donald , Go out shoppin awhile, bath...alot of ting i tink its logic i'll listen..no logic...i seriously din obey...alot of my frenz tell me to rest well n all...yes..i did listen but after tat i seriously cannot take it..but will owas lay dwn whenever i free..den for bath wise...i nid to bath in order to gif a proper hygiene to latch Raphael...n when go out, i eat mac donald but got ask permission from my mum...oni din drink cold drinks nia..

my mummy owas nag @ me says my confinement is reali very good >.<

Postado Por: My PrEciOuS DiAry às 12:08 PM