My PrEciOuS DiAry

Thursday, April 7, 2011

DeAr DiaRy, 7th April 2011 - ITs a ThuRsDaY Its Been Months since i last update.. Today haf tis urge to update, so many tings keep in my mind all about Husband... Not tryin to show off but i'm reali lucky to haf him as my husband..a Loving, caring good Husband n father...everyone who knws me will tell me tis... because Husband DOES NOT -restrict wadever i'm doing & even helping me look after Raphael so tat i can go out to haf some mahjong session... husband ALWAYS - support wadever i do - make me a happy woman i'm saying all tis bcos tats wad i'm goin thru it n notice tat i've owas update my blog saying abt raphael..haha... Husband & Me Nowadays we love to lay on the bed (not heart to heart tok) but playing wif our little master Raphael...Seein him from a newborn who keep slpin n layin there until now keep climbin n crawlin here n there, makes me n hubby laughin non-stop by all his action. Husband has been tryin his best to gif us the best he could, but as always i'm demanding... Planning for Raphael 1st Birthday Time Flies, last year i'm counting down day by day to my edd n now i'm searching for cakes n alot of tings for Raphael 1st birthday ^^ Found a Fondant Cake cost abt 320+, almost order it but after tat i ask husband, who knws he say Very Expensive tat tis amount can b his pocket money for 1 month...Hmm, come to tink of it, i feel very upset bcos i nvr thot of husband alone workin nia..as i share it wif my parent, my dad says i'm too much, n my dad knws if i insist of ordering, husband will not stop me, he sure will let me buy. But ask me to tink of him...i got to agree sometime i'm very self-centered. Will update soon again abt the preparation for Raphael 1st Birthday ^^

Postado Por: My PrEciOuS DiAry às 4:23 PM

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

DeAr DiaRy,

11th January 2011 - Its a TuEsDaY

TodaY is indeed a nice date bcos its 11.1.11 but i tink november will b more nicer ba..

CNY is round the corner soon..another 3 more weeks?? i've not buy much ting yet for myself & husband did not buy aniting @ all..BUT for our little baobei, i've bought his CNY clothes 2-3months ago..HAHA...1 Singaporean Kiasu mummy here..Eversince little baobei is out, everyting & everytime will put him 1st..like goin shoppin will owas aim for kids store n walk if not kiddy palace is my another favourite place...i'm not sian to keep walkin into kiddy palace everytime i reach ani shoppin mall, whenever i go into the store, strikes my mind is owas the time when i'm still pregnant den lookin for newborn clothes, milk bottle, baby towel n all..den now i walk in to toy section to show little baobei all the toy n buy some for him..

Tink tat alot of people will says i very pamper my little baobei, but again if i dun pamper him den pamper WHO? i got my limit as well of cos, as i not workin den husband is the oni 1 supportin us, den everytime i wana buy, will gif husband a call n c he agree to buy anot..i tink its better to discuss b4 i buy, if he tink not neccessary den he'll ask me dun buy, BUT tis daddy dote his son alot bcos everytime i wana buy, he will not say no..haha..

Other than kiddy palace, i love buyin baby clothes via online or blogshop..most of the seller is oso a mother themself..

Notice tat everyone will says their little precious is a pretty ger or handsome boy..last time i dun understand y people like to praise their own kids..now i finali knws it, bcos their kids is owas prefect in their parent eye..Honestly, i omost everyday will call my son Handsome boy..LOLx...n guess wad!! my parent or sister will ask my little baobei "Y u so handsome!!" muahahaha.. but of cos we oni say it when no outsider is there..if not, they will sure say we thick skin..

Husband & I Corner

Have been updatin alot of our little baobei n neglect ourself =p...

Share a very funny moment..

One day we're watchin TVB drama name " Click Lu Huang Jing Wu", there's tis part where the husband too engross in playing the Computer den the wife ask "wads ur wife surname" den the husband reply "HUH?" den the next foloin day...:

ME : (too engross playing cabal)
Husband : Laopo, wads ur laogong surname?
Me : HUH?
Husband : (talkin to raphael) you c, your mummy duno ur daddy surname ah!!
Me : (ignore him)
Husband : Laopo, wads ur son surname?
Me : Sng lo
Husband : next time, ask your father this

OMG, tink my husband gonna do tis to me for the next few times until he forget...

Postado Por: My PrEciOuS DiAry às 12:15 PM

Friday, January 7, 2011

DeAr DiaRy,

25th December 2010 - Happi 1St WeDdIng (traditional) anniversary to Hubby & myself

Hmmmm....in the end, we did not go aniwhere to celebrate our wedding anniversary, juz normal dinner @ sakae sushi wif baobei & in laws...

As 24th December 2010 durin xmas eve, i went to play mahjong until mornin, den husband went to church..so we did not brin baobei out to countdown as he's too young oso..

SO leh, husband n i decide to spend our wedding anniversary together wif little baobei than we go out for a date..

As long, our heart got one another, everyday is oso our wedding anniversary, but spending time wif loves one its the most happiest ting ever..

But Marina Bay Sand...i'll come to u soon, when my little baobei grow bigger, i'll brin him there to SWIM n enjoy the beautiful scene together wif both our parent...

2010 Speech...

A Brand new year starting soon...

In this 2010, i did a most bravo job is to brin my little baobei to tis world healthy & safely..Although there's of cos some unhappi tings tat haf happen durin the start of year 2010, but luckily i haf lots of nice people around me to encourage me n support me...ESPECIALLY my hubby, my family & my parent in law...BUT all tis small little unhappi ting was bein overcome after my little baobei has come to tis world..brin joy & laughter to all of us..

Seeing my little Baobei growin from a small little dou dou become a infant den become a baby now..its so happi to watch our little baby grow day by day...

Postado Por: My PrEciOuS DiAry às 12:54 PM

Monday, December 6, 2010

DeAr DiAry,

13th November 2010 - Its a SaTurDaY

Raphael progress

Weighing 7.5Kg @ 5months 1 week

Phew...he's growin @ 50percentile...n took his 6 in 1 jab...as usual i do not dare to c it..so husband carry baobei n wad i do is to look @ him n hold his hand tight...My brave little boy, he oni "Ehh.." when the needle poke in n stop within seconds...

Haiz..i'm such a Lousy mummy dun dare to gif him the hug while he's hafin injection..bcos i knws i'll sure b shiverin when i see's it...n lucky tat daddy is owas there for us rite..

Time passes so fast that nw he's oreadi 5 months....

Postado Por: My PrEciOuS DiAry às 4:44 PM

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

DeAr DiArY,

9th NovemBEr 2010 - ItS a RaiNnY TuesDaY MoRniN

RapHAeL UpdATEs ....

27th OcToBeR 2010

RapHAeL did his 1st flip by himself in front of me, husband n my mum...husband trying to use toy n make him catch..n put somewhere further abit tat he cannot reach..tis is hw he turn..actuali i tink baobei oreadi knw hw to turn but he's juz plain lazy...durin 3months plus..we put him on tummy n he knws hw to flip bakward..den slowli when we change his diaper..we put him on sideways, he actuali flip up...so i would says tat baobei is lazy..now my Busy record book added 1 more BUSY milestone for me..haha..he's oreadi 4months plus goin 5 months soon...although he's consider quite late to flip...but nevertheless i'm still very happi n excited tat he learn another skills n oso now since he knws hw to flip..as n when he'll gif me a fright becos i cannot juz leave him alone on the bed as well...

There's 1 day...i was tokin on the phone..n he's actuali takin his afternoon nap..den i walk over to the kitchen to throw rubbish n juz nice he start cryin...when i walk bak to look @ him...he actuali flip up but luckily i put him on mattress so tat even he fall oso wun hit too hard on the floor...Phew~~ n the most difficult part nw is helpin him to change diaper...C c c ...he oreadi master the skill so he cannot lay dwn properly juz like his newborn...

7th November 2010 - ITs a SundAY

Tis weekend spendin @ jurong house cos my precious parent in law went to malacca...as i usuali spend weekend @ sengkang eversince little baobei is out...

So tis weekend, juz nice my precious mummy is off.. den we went for shoppin @ suntec.. we walk everywhere in suntec n oso to toyrus..its so funny tat all of us enjoy inside the toy shop...especially Precious daddy n my little baobei..did video dwn n upload into FB soon...=) n after shoppin we went to haf our dinner n go to NTUC buy BaoBei de milk powder n cereal...den proceed bak home...

Tokin abt my FB...some says tat i owas upload photo of my little bao bei..some says not enuf n ask me uplaod more..n tis FB is my electric photo album..although its more to the public (my frenz) but it oso to help me save all my photo as well...last time we use to develop the photo n keep it in the album..but nw we save it in an electric photo album..Li hai hor..=p..

Our Precious Corner...

Comin soon our 1st weddin anniversary...seriously duno hw to celebrate tis comin anniversary bcos now i cannot leave R alone n go somewhere myself for few days...

Husband says book Marina Bay Sands...i was hesitatin @ 1st but now i agree to book it...it's too late..cos all fully book..>.<...C cc...i'm owas like tat...owas decide late n miss the opportunity...but nvm..to me..spend anniversary aniwhere oso no problem..as long as we both got the heart for 1 another..tats oreadi enuf..^^

1 of the days...i complain husband touch Raphael more than touch me..muahaha...den guess wad...we went shoppin, husband carry raphael n another hand hold me..lolx..shld i get happi or funny abt it?

Ranting corner...

I juz cannot understand tat why ppl like to compare the size of the baby...So wat if ur baby is bigger size than mine or my baby is bigger size than u..isn't the most important is tat they're growin well, eating well n most important is healthy???

Different people handle their baby differently...so u cannot judge me by saying the way i look after my kids will not make him grow fatter...i dun listen much to those oldies where the result dun turn logically...all parent wishes for their kids is owas the best..n dun u tink tat wad u say will hurt a mother heart..do u tink i would liek my kids to b small size too???

Baby Sleep more will grow fatter...i totally agree to tis..not oni baby eat n slp will grow fat...adult does too...but in the end wad does baby gain instead of bein chubby?...n so wad if i dun let my baby slp the whole day n often put him in tummy to train his strong neck...i've been carryin Raphael sitin upright when he's oni 2 months plus..n i feel so proud of him tat he can start to support his head wif his own neck..

By 3 months plus he can start to look around when we carry him upright...SO so so wad my baby isn't chubby??

den wads the problem wif keep carryin baby??? different ppl handle their kids differently...i loves to cuddle & swaddle my little baobei...tis is the oni time i can cuddle & swaddle as much as i like...when he grow up, he will not wans to b like tis...so wad if u owes a easier life proudly tellin ppl tat i din reali carry my kids much when they're baby..n next time u watchin ur kids n tryin to recall their newborn n tinkin i did not carry them much when u feel like it...its too late cos u cannot rewind bak the time...

Baby crys cos they nid secure as they're juz warmly hug inside ur tummy for the pretty 10months.. so when they're out..they feel insecure so tats y they cry..n yet u're their parent, watchin them cry n dun carry cos u dun wana to trouble urself n make ur baby feel insecure!!! den y in the 1st place u gif birth to a kids for wad...ur own kids u dun dote on them den who dote? of cos dote muz haf a limit la..but i simply dun agree wif oldies sayin "dun owas carry ur vavy when they cry" bcos i tink its tryin to gif themself more freedom den if u scare of not hafin freedom den i tink u shldn't gif birth in the 1st place..imagine u're very very very scare n u cry...n u're hopin ur husband or ur parent to come n gif u a tight hug for secure n yet they juz ignore u or stand around u n watch u cryin..>.<

Muahaha...Perhaps oldies saw wad i say they'll get alive from dead lolx...but wad i'm sayin is tryin to express wad a baby nids...n tis oldies simply juz make all tis baby feel so pity...we brin our kids to the world is to let them see n gif the best ting to them..not come out to suffer insecurity..

Dun gif birth to ur kids juz for the sake of gif birth or bcos no precaution...since u wan to brin them to the world..u muz knw tat u'll nvr haf ani type of freedom...even by carryin ur baby lesser wun help tat much la..n oso try to understand other mother heart...no mother wish to c their baby smaller built than other baby tat is same age...we shld encourage them by not sayin theur method of lookin is wrong..

i love seein or hearin mummy excitedly n happily enjoyin thru their pregnancy n baby growin stage..n welcomin all the new skills their baby has learn..no doubts it'll b extra busy..but its all worth it..although sometime will complain tat they haf no time to rest n all but of cos they're still enjoyin it...a New parenthood begins..

and owas like to compare ur baby is bigger than mine or mine is bigger than u..hw come dun compare who learn the skill faster? baby eventually will slim down when they start to walk n run..so tat chubby period is oni tat 1st few months of their lifes..unless both parent is big size den of cos the baby will eventually get fatter...

Phew~ after bein a mother..above rantin is wad i encounter everytime..even brin baby to shoppin...some stranger or older auntie will ask hw old is Raphael den after knowin..their next comment is sayin their grandson is chubbier than Raphael..den teach me to let baby sleep more..i feel tat its so pity to keep stayin @ home n slp the whole day instead of brin them around to look @ wads goin on after comin out of the tummy...haha..so i simply juz ignore..

they're a mother themself..dun they knw tat its hurtin to hear such comments???

But luckily i got my both parent, husband n sister there to encourage me thruout all tis comments...wad matters is Baby is healthy...

Postado Por: My PrEciOuS DiAry às 12:03 PM

Monday, November 1, 2010

DeAr DiArY,

1st NovembEr 2010 - ITs A mOnDaY

FriEnDs says : UpDatE uPdaTe uPdAte...

i shall let my blog get alive again..:P

suppose i shld b able to update my blog daily..since i'm not workin...but my precious King keep makin me busy the whole day...even in my dream..muahaha...*Li Hai Ba...

Hmm...another 3 days Mr Raphael Sng goin into his 5th months milestone le...how times flies...last year tis period, i'm actuali busy preparing n plannin for my upcomin weddin n @ the same time watchin my diet for my little dou dou in my womb...

tis year...i'm carryin my baobei on my arms watchin him grow day by day n keep smilin happily to me everyday...n of cos the everyday laughter bought by Raphael in the house for both my parents n everyone who dotes on him...

he seems to knw hw to make ppl feel happi by gifin his wide smile :D...i could says he's a happi baby...wich all along i've been prayin durin the 10months of pregnancy...besides prayin for his healthy..n i did it..=)

sometime i told myself whether is it i fall in love wif my son...muahahaha...i can juz lay beside him n keep lookin @ him n keep smilin to myself n gif him millions of kisses..i juz cant help... whenever anione who carry him..i'll sure keep lookin @ him n automatically my mood will b very happi...even when sometime i was tokin on the phone wif husband...i complain ani unhappi ting to him...he'll definitely says "go go go..look @ our baobei...u'll forget everyting n will b happi le" haha..

since birth till now...I've entitled tis title of KoaLa Mama & my husband become KoaLa Papa..Little baby loves to slp on our chest..n tis is where i read on some website sayin tat baby feels secure while layin on our chest becos they can hear our heartbeat juz like in mummy womb...n now Little Koala baby has grown up n gettin bigger...poor koala mama n papa has been sufferin everywhere pain n breathless while koala'in our baby slp in the middle of the nite...

Koala papa has been great thru out tis 4months plus..he did his job well..

Now...25th December 2010 is comin round the corner...it'll b our 1st year traditional weddin anniversary..husband wanted to book Marina Bay Sands to celebrate our lovely day there as i like their skypark..but but but..duno wana brin Little Koala along anot..wana "Er Ren Shi Jie" but i'm sure both husband n my heart will b very sure tinkin abt raphael..

Wads very good is both my parent offer to look after Raphael for us durin tis day..n ask us go for celebration...muahahaha..but i still did not haf tis habit of goin out enjoy n leaving little Baobei @ home...

Eversince Raphael is out...we've been very sticky...even when i'm outside, i'll still b lookin @ his photo inside my phone..keep tinkin wads Raphael doin...

Worrying mama..no doubts tat all mama is owas worryin abt their kids...even when they've grow until very old n even get married...our parent still took very great care of us n oso not forgetin their grandson...n oso worryin together wif me if Raphael did not poo for the day or poo alot..haha..C..poo oso nid to worry...

ANother Topic people frequently ask...

When is ur #2 comin~~

when i heard abt tis...whenever i'll SHAKE my head hard n says "NONONO" den automatically ppl will says "muz gif Raphael a siblin" muahahaha...

n husband has been pesterin me for a Daddy Girl...n everytime he ask abt tis...i'll tell him "if u're very sure n 100% confirm tat next 1 is a ger..den i dun midn hafin a #2.." den usuali husband will keep quiet until 1 day...playin mahjong wif his frenz..den his frenz ask me for #2 den i say i not plannin to haf #2...den husband says "soon soon" den i ask husband the question again..n guess wad..his frenz ans for him n says "CONFIRM" den he turn his head to husband n says " juz say confirm den later check le not ger..she oso LL ma..muahaha" den now everytime husband ask...i owas keep quiet..lolx...

Shall update until here...to be continued...

Postado Por: My PrEciOuS DiAry às 10:43 AM

Monday, September 27, 2010

DEaR DiArY,

20th September 2010 - its a monday

Today is the day we decide to hand in hand n walk dwn another half of our life...the whole scene is still so freshly in my mind...

Remember the priest Kenny help us...Remember after my rom...the nite itself went to JB wif my pri skool frenz n bf...Remember hw happy we are tat time..But now~~ its all different...

Last year durin my ROM i'm carryin my bitch frenz de nephew..tis year our 1st ROM anniversary...i'm carryin my son...How time flies...

Husband plannin to brin us to haf some big feast...as i wana save money in the end so we eat Thai Express @ vivo there...husband has slight sore throat n flu...same goes to me..

today oso my grandma 13th Year death anniversary...so went shoppin wif my mum @ vivo n wait for daddy from work..

Nowadays after raphael is out...my mum off day is oso my shoppin day...without fail, we'll brin him out for shoppin..becos we knw tat raphael is very happi n excited when we brin him out...

Can c both husband n my parent reali dote on Raphael alot..my dad can purposly brin us go roundin cos he knws tat raphael likes to c lighting..

So after hafin our dinner @ Thai Express...we went to clarke quay there to c light..bcos Mooncake festival is round the corner...

Still remember b4 i knw i'm pregnant...i'm craving for Mooncake...haha...everyting is juz 1yr ago...so so so fast...

26th September 2010 - ITs a Monday

Raphael Update

Raphael @ birth is 2.65Kg
Raphael @ 6weeks old is 4.4Kg
Raphael @ 3months 1 week old is 6.1Kg

Husband n i do agree tat we miss our little Raphael Newborn...Now he's oreadi 3 months goin to 4 months in afew days time...

Every Saturday we'll try to brin him out for some window shopping..my son loves to look around n oso loves to c lightin...

Guess wad...25th Sep we went orchard shopping n husband bought me a Burberry bag..it's oso big enuf to put raphael belongings too...

My parent n i strongly agrees tat i haf a good husband n a good parent in law...is not bcos my husband bought me a bag den i tink tat he's a nice husband..

During confinement n after birth..my husband has been doin a good job as a father n husband...he owas concern me 1st den after tat concern baby...everyday he call me n ask "How m i" the feelin is nice..bcos after birth, usuali will get emo tat everyone dotes baby more than i do..tis emo n feelin is unavoidable...but husband slowli help me to push those type of tinkin away from my mind...i feel reali great...

My parent in law knws tat alone lookin after baby is very tirin n not easy...so she let me continue goin bak my parent house durin weekday cos @ least my mum n all is around @ home durin afternoon...n friday as usuali my dad will fetch me bak to sengkang den sunday nite my father in law will fetch us bak to jurong...

my parent help me takin care of raphael..my mum offer to help me look after durin nite time...so i haf a proper rest...despite my mum has to wake up @ 5am plus to do housework n go to work...

althought in job i might not b goin on smoothly...but wad's important to me is i haf a good husband, great parents...n my cute baobei...

Everyday i'm prayin hard tat both my parent n our family will be healthy n safely owas..after hafin a family myself...i notice tat tis 2 r the most important of all...

Work not smoothly - NVM (becos we can find it again n again)

As for now...i'm a Stay @ home mother...i'll work oni after my son grow up n knw hw to do tings by himself b4 i step out to work again...

The precious moment is to watch n company own kids thru their growin stage..bcos we cannot rewind bak to look after them as n when we wan...

Postado Por: My PrEciOuS DiAry às 10:00 PM